So this Ethiopian woman made a video on You Tube regarding what she sees as the problem with black American women. On one hand I understand that it is easy for someone who was not born in this country, and doesn’t understand the history of the black woman in America, and what we’ve been through to judge an entire group of people, but on the other hand, for all of her “education” she should seek out the truth before she starts running her mouth.
She says that black women are the most dangerous women to date. She says that we lack education, and class. She says that black women cannot date outside of our race because we don’t realize that the non black world sees us as nothing at the bottom. She says we come from single parent homes, and don’t have a culture of our own. She says that we are all damaged.
I will agree with her, that black women in this country don’t know their history, language, and true culture. But you really have to take the history of the black woman in this country into account beginning with slavery. The things our ancestors were conditioned to believe have been handed down through the generations, and if nobody is attempting to break the cycle, how can the cycle be broken? My point is, the playing field was NEVER level. However, all black women are not from single family homes, and in my opinion a woman can be a total mess regardless if there’s a father in the home or not, it just all depends on how that woman was raised, and what kind of people she comes from her parents are.
I also find it disturbing that she thinks she’s seen any different from all the black women that she’s putting down. In this country, you are not a woman from Africa, you are a black woman so all of those things you are saying about us, are being said about you. She can sit there and talk about how black women don’t have decent education when she uses a word like “worser”. Another thing that bothered me was how she says that she is not interested in the Asian culture because she has her own. Okay smartie, I get it but what about when you and your Asian hubby have children, his culture becomes their culture as well as yours, so you’re not going to be able to teach your children who they are because you weren’t interested in learning? To say that all black women are desperate is absolutely ridiculous, I know many black women including myself, who are living single and loving it. I don’t stress over marriage or being in a relationship because I just don’t want to be bothered. There are other races of women who would be considered desperate because they are willing to settle for whatever comes along, it has nothing to do with the color of your skin as much as it does how happy you are within yourself.
I also find it funny that she talks of her own heritage, and knowing where she comes from, yet she sits there with bone straight hair. Just a thought.
She is obsessed with this issue of black women and Asian men, in which she states that black women have no chance of dating out of their race. Is it just me, or does her entire face tighten up as she spouts her ignorance on this subject? I’m thinking she’s bitter, maybe her Asian husband has cheated with a black American woman? After all, I’m sure he didn’t see a woman from Africa when he first saw her, but a black woman. But I could be wrong ( but I don’t think I am).
She says that most black women are no good, failures, and at the bottom. I could get mad and call her out of her name, but there’s no need. If she got out of the fantasy land she’s living in and actually traveled, she would see that those perceptions she has regarding black women are close minded, and shallow. I know plenty of black women who are doing their thing. I know black women who own their own businesses, and have very comfortable lives. They are active in their communities and some are single, and some are happily married.
So anyway one of my loyal readers Candace ( hey girl!) wants to address the woman bashing that it prevalent in society now more than ever before. Turning the black men against black women was an agenda from the beginning to stop the creation of more black children so that our race will die out. The first thing they did was turn us against ourselves. Stripping us of our dignity, and pride of who we were, and bombarding us with these non black images we see in the media, and in print so that we would hate our own images. The Gay Agenda was implemented to further divide us, the State Run School Agenda was implemented to turn our children against us and render us ineffective. As I said, the playing field was never level in the first place, but we continue to strive in a world that obviously doesn’t love us. She says that we are the most dangerous women, but I think we are the strongest!
spotted at The Dirt
http://bossip.com/338786/ethiopian-chick-with-meaty-face-goes-in-on-black-american-women-video6969/
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